Curious about how to use a pendulum to make decisions? A pendulum is a fantastic tool for connecting with your intuition and finding clarity. It’s a small but powerful device - a piece of crystal, stone or any weighted object attached to a chain or string that swings in response to your Energy, helping you cut through doubt and confusion.
If you’re feeling stuck or overthinking your choices, a pendulum can give you a gentle nudge in the right direction, reconnecting you to that inner knowing that already has all the answers.
Let’s dive into how to get started with a pendulum and some fun ways you can use it in your daily life!
What Is a Pendulum?
A pendulum is basically a small weight, often a crystal or rock, attached to a chain or string. When you hold it up, the pendulum will naturally swing in different directions and these movements give you “yes” or “no” answers to your questions. It’s a beautifully simple yet powerful tool to help you tap into your intuition.
Choices can be overwhelming at the best of times, which is why using a pendulum is so helpful. It helps you get out of your head and reconnect with your gut instincts, letting go of all the overthinking that often holds us back.
Choosing Your Pendulum
Pendulums come in all kinds of styles - there’s no “right” one. Just pick a pendulum that you feel drawn to. Some people love using crystals, while others prefer using an object that holds sentimental value. A friend of mine uses a necklace that belonged to her grandmother because it feels meaningful.
Personally, I go for anything sparkly because, well, I love things that shine!
If you don’t have a designated pendulum, don’t stress. You can use any weighted object on a string or chain, even a necklace if that’s what you have handy. I've used a phone charger before so don't get caught up in your pendulum needing to be fancy!
How to Use a Pendulum for the First Time
If you’re new to pendulums, don’t worry if it feels a bit tricky at first. With a little practice, you’ll be a pro in no time. Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you get started:
Hold the Pendulum Steady: Hold the end of the chain so the pendulum hangs freely just above your open palm. Leave a small gap (only a centimetre or two to begin with) between the pendulum and your hand - this is the space where the magic happens.
Relax and Focus: Take a few deep breaths and try to relax. Focus on the gap between your palm and the pendulum, letting yourself connect with the Energy there. Don’t overthink it; just stay as relaxed as you can (a bit of nerves is totally fine), keep breathing and think about the Energy that flows through all of our bodies all the time.
Ask for a Yes or No Answer: Once you’re comfortable, ask your pendulum to show you a “yes” answer and notice how it swings. Then ask it to show you a “no.” For example:
Yes: The pendulum might move in a circular motion.
No: It might swing back and forth.
Everyone’s answers are unique. Your “yes” might be a wobble and your “no” could be an up-and-down swing. Just observe the movement without judging it.
Trust the Energy: Remember, it’s not your hand moving the pendulum — it’s your Energy. As humans, we’re often great at second-guessing ourselves, but using a pendulum helps bypass that self-doubt. Trust that the Energy is there and guiding you.
Note: At the beginning, the swinging of the pendulum may be really tiny. That's ok. The more you try it the more pronounced the movement will be.
Using Your Pendulum in Daily Life
Once you’re comfortable with the basics, you can use your pendulum to help with all kinds of decisions. And when I say all kinds, I mean it! Here are a few ways to put your pendulum to work:
Choosing Oracle Cards: If shuffling is tricky, use your pendulum to select which card to pull.
Making Everyday Decisions: Use it to help you pick something simple, like a bottle of wine or even a pair of socks or what order to do some mundane tasks in.
Choosing Colours or Decor: I used my pendulum to help me choose a benchtop for my kitchen renovation and the colour of the towels I gifted to a friend (they were spot on!).
Restaurant Choices: Overwhelmed by delicious menu options? Let your pendulum help you decide!
There’s really no limit to what you can ask your pendulum - it’s here to make life easier, move you past your overthinking and to help you tune into your intuition in the simplest way possible.
Tips for Using Your Pendulum
Stay Relaxed: When you’re starting out, tell your super-busy brain to shut the fuck up. Chill out as much as you can, take a breath and let your Energy guide the movement.
Keep It Simple: When you’re learning, try asking a couple of very basic “yes” or “no” questions you already know the answer to so you can gain confidence in the pendulum movement. Once you’re more comfortable, you can start asking more detailed questions that require a yes/no or this one/that one response.
Practice Regularly: The more you use your pendulum, the more naturally the process will feel. Keep it light-hearted and don’t worry if you don’t see big movements right away - it may take a few tries to really get the feel of it.
Frequently Asked Questions About Pendulums
Can I use my pendulum anywhere? Yes! I have pendulums in my car, my kitchen, my bedroom - pretty much everywhere. You can keep yours with you and use it whenever you feel you need a little extra guidance.
Is it okay if my pendulum’s movement is small? Absolutely! When you’re first starting, the movements may be very subtle. With time, the swings will become more pronounced as you relax and get comfortable with the process.
What if my pendulum isn’t moving?If it doesn’t move right away, take a deep breath, clear your mind, wriggle your shoulders to release the tightness in your muscles that you probably don't realise you're holding or try again later. Sometimes our own tension can hold back the Energy. Letting go of expectations often helps.
Why I Love Pendulums
I absolutely love having pendulums around because they help me get out of my head and make quick, confident choices. When I’m torn between options, my pendulum cuts through the mental clutter and gives me a direct answer. If you want to simplify decisions, reduce overthinking and reconnect with your intuition, a pendulum is an amazing tool to have.
If you’re ready to bring more clarity and ease to your life, give a pendulum a try. I highly recommend adding one to your daily decision making - you’ll wonder how you ever got by without it!
Happy decision-making!
Love & Abundance,
Lyndy xxx
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